The Alli Worthington Show

The Cost of Carrying Everyone: How Over-Functioning Is Making You Sick and Stuck

What if your exhaustion isn't due to laziness or a lack of motivation but because you've unknowingly become the overworked, unpaid CEO of everyone's life?
 
You're not alone in feeling this way. You're not tired because you're weak. You're exhausted because you're carrying the weight of multiple lives, including a golden retriever, and the emotional burden of your group chat, while rage-washing dishes, whispering, "It's fine" through clenched teeth.
 
Let's be real. Overfunctioning isn't sustainable. Emotional CrossFit is not a life plan. Doing everything isn't noble—it's exhausting.
 
I've lived this, and I'm sharing the mindset shifts and practical steps that helped me break free from overfunctioning and finally breathe again. Let's do less, live better, and take back our peace.
Timestamps:
(2:53) - Are You Over-Functioning Without Realizing It?
(3:30) - Sneaky Signs You're Carrying Too Much
(4:58)- Why We Started Over-Functioning in the First Place
(6:31) - The Hidden Costs You’re Paying
(9:00) - Manageable Steps for Breaking Free from Over-Functioning
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xo,
 
Alli

The Gut-Brain Bombshell: What If Your Anxiety Isn’t All in Your Head? With Dr. Nicole Cain)

Today, we’re diving into part two of my powerful conversation with Dr. Nicole Cain, and let me tell you—this is one you don’t want to miss. Our first episode was so packed with wisdom and life-changing advice that we had to break it into two full sessions.
 
Dr. Nicole Cain is a licensed naturopathic doctor and clinical psychologist who blends holistic health, modern psychology, and practical tools to help you heal from the inside out. If you’ve ever felt stuck in anxiety, overwhelmed by stress, or exhausted from emotional burnout, her insights are exactly what you need. 
 
This isn’t just another conversation—it’s a roadmap to true healing. Your peace, your mindset, and even your future start right here. So, let’s jump in.
Timestamps:
(01:43) - How to Reintegrate Your Mind and Body for Lasting Peace
(06:44)- Building Your Window of Tolerance
(13:29) - The Gut-Anxiety Connection
(14:12)- The Gut-Healing Strategies That Also Soothe Anxiety
(19:07)- Why Gut Health Is a Game-Changer When It Comes to Healing Anxiety
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Links to great things we discussed: 
Dr. Nicole Cain’s Book - Panic Proof
 
 
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xo,
Alli

How to Build Real Connections in a World That Feels Disconnected

We live in a world where connection is everywhere—our notifications buzz with likes, comments, and DMs. And yet, why does it still feel like something’s missing? Why do we scroll through highlight reels, surrounded by digital admiration, yet still feel unseen at the end of the day?
 
Here’s what we rarely admit: we don’t need more people in our lives; we need deeper connections. The type of connections where you can be yourself—messy bun, tired eyes, no filters—and feel confident in being loved. The kind where you’re not performing or proving, just existing—and that’s enough.
 
Today, let’s drop the pressure and talk about genuine relationships. The kind that refreshes your soul instead of draining it. Because you don’t just deserve friendships—you were made for them. So, let’s dig in and find the ones that remind you that you belong.
Timestamps:
 
(04:28)- Why Disconnection is Self-Protection 
(05:58) - You are Wired for Connection
(06:33) - 3 Shifts to Build Soul-Filling Friendships
(09:01) - The 3-Step Plan to Build Real Connections
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xo,
Alli
 

The Real Truth About Anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain

Today's guest is an absolute powerhouse—Dr. Nicole Cain. If you've ever felt trapped by anxiety, overwhelmed by emotions, or stuck in patterns you just can't shake, this episode is going to be a game-changer.
Dr. Cain is a licensed naturopathic doctor and clinical psychologist who brings holistic health, modern psychology, and practical tools to help you heal from the inside out. She's here to help you break free from cycles of fear and frustration.
Dr. Cain shares powerful strategies you can use today. Whether it's rewiring your brain for peace, navigating trauma, or finally learning how to move forward, these are not just theoretical concepts, but practical tools. With heart, wisdom, and real results, Dr. Cain's approach empowers you to take control of your mental health.
You don't want to miss this one!
 
Timestamps:
(02:27) - Dr. Cain’s Personal Story with Anxiety
(08:10) - Why Anxiety and Fear Aren’t the Same
(14:04 - The Stoplight Strategy for Managing Your Anxiety
(18:44) - Dr. Cain’s 4-Step Panic Reset Process
(21:20) - Quick and Practical Tools to Calm Your Body and Soothe Your Nervous System
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Dr. Nicole Cain’s Book - Panic Proof
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xo,
Alli

Stop Playing Small: How to Think Bigger and Go After What You Want

Let’s get honest about a lie holding too many of us back. Somewhere along the way, we picked up this false idea that humility means shrinking, that dreaming big somehow makes us prideful. But here’s the truth—thinking bigger isn’t prideful, it’s faithful.
Playing small doesn’t honor God. Stewarding your gifts—that’s what glorifies Him. So today, we’re tearing down the lie that safe and small equals holy. We’re stepping into the dreams deep in your heart—the ones so bold and beautiful, you almost feel guilty for wanting them. The ones that whisper, “Who do you think you are?”
 
Here’s the answer: You are His. And it’s time to trust Him enough to dream bigger.
Timestamps:
(01:04) - Why Playing Small Doesn’t Honor God
(04:43) - Name the Fear That’s Keeping You Stuck
(06:15) - Stop Chasing Outcomes: Shift to Identity-Driven Thinking
(07:41) - Make Room for Bold, God-Sized Dreams in Your Life
(10:06) - 2 Practical Ways to Finally Stop Playing Small
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Standing Strong
Alli’s Product Recommendation - NOW Solutions, Vegetable Glycerin
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xo,
Alli

How to Read a Room: The Hidden Psychology of Influence, Confidence, and Knowing What Everyone Else Misses with Dr. Mike Bechtle

Oh, I know that feeling—you walk into a room, and suddenly, your mind is racing with doubt. But here’s the truth: You’re not alone and don’t have to stay in doubt.
 
Today, we’re diving into a game-changer—how to read the room so you can swap second-guessing for confidence, clarity, and a calm presence that leads with grace.
 
Dr. Mike Bechtle is here to help us break free from overthinking and finally see the social cues most people miss. It isn’t about performing or pretending—it’s about stepping into every space with grounded authenticity.
 
By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a decisive mindset shift and a practical four-step framework that will transform how you speak, lead, and connect in every room, meeting, and moment. Let’s get into it!
Timestamps:
(00:54) - The One Belief That Silently Destroys Your Confidence in a Room
(03:14) - Why Scoping Out the Room First Gives You the Upper Hand
(06:05) - The Confidence Secret No One Talks About: It Comes from Competence
(13:27) - Dr. Mike’s 4-Step Process to Read Any Room
(19:21) - How to Be the Most Memorable Person in a Crowded Room
(20:34) - How to Show Up Confidently in Online Meetings
 
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Mike’s TV Show Recommendations - American Idol, The Voice, & High Potential
Mike’s Product Recommendation - Little ELF Gift Wrap Cutter
Mike’s App Recommendation - Picture This & Merlin Bird ID
 
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xo,
Alli

The Happiness Hack That Takes Less Than 10 Minutes a Day

I am so excited about today’s episode! We’re diving into a small but mighty habit that can completely transform your day in less than 10 minutes. No big life overhaul, no drastic changes required.
 
You don’t need a new job, house, or a dream vacation to feel better. You need a simple reset—a daily practice that lifts your mood, rewires your brain, and most importantly, draws you closer to God.
 
And here’s the best part: it’s science-backed, spiritually aligned, and ready for you to start today. This happiness hack might change everything. Let’s dive in!
Listen in to learn more:
 
(01:32) - Surprising Truths About What Really Makes You Happy
(02:48) - How to Strengthen Your Gratitude Muscle (and Why It Matters)
(10:37) - The 10-Minute Happiness Hack That Can Rewire Your Brain
(13:18) - What’s Blocking Your Gratitude—and How to Break Through
(16:04) - Simple Ways to Cultivate Joy in the Middle of Everyday Life
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xo,
Alli

From Stuck to Steady, From Tired to Energized, From Blah to Bold: The Best of What Works

Today’s a “Best Of” episode—and you know I absolutely love these shows. Nothing makes me happier than pulling together the best bits, the moments that resonate, and the wisdom that sticks with us long after we hear it.
 
Now that I’ve done many solo shows, it felt like the perfect time to round up the greatest hits. I’m calling this one: From Stuck to Steady, From Tired to Energized, and From Blah to Bold. 
 
Because, let’s be honest, feeling good isn’t just about those fleeting moments of happiness. It’s about sustaining it. It’s about building habits and mindsets that work—ones that keep us thriving, not just surviving.
 
So, today, we’re diving deep. We’re talking about how to build your optimism muscle so you’re grounded even when life throws curveballs. We’re unpacking why sleep—yes, good old-fashioned rest—is your secret superpower (and how to get more of it). And, of course, I’m sharing simple ways to create a life that feels good. We are made to thrive, not just get by.
 
Let’s get into it!
 
Timestamps: 
(01:25) - Build Your Optimism Muscle
(06:17) - Hacks for Better Sleep
(16:54) - Actionable Steps to Build a Good Life
(22:47) - Quick Ideas to Get Out of a Rut
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xo,
Alli

The Biggest Mistake You're Making with Your Goals

Let’s dive into one of the biggest mistakes people make when setting goals. It’s subtle, frustrating, and the good news is you can fix it today.
 
We all love setting goals, whether pursuing business dreams, achieving fitness targets, or making life-changing resolutions. There’s something  powerful about mapping out a plan for the future. But after working with so many driven, faith-filled women, I’ve noticed a common issue: it’s not about lacking motivation or discipline, and it’s not that you’re aiming too high.
 
The real issue? Treating your goal like a finish line instead of viewing it as a pathway to transformation.
 
When you change how you look at things, it changes everything. Today, I’m here to help you stop chasing a destination and start creating goals that actually help you grow—inside and out—so you can move forward with purpose, peace, and steady progress.
Timestamps:
 
(00:52) - The Biggest Goal-Setting Mistake That’s Holding You Back
(01:15) - 3 Sneaky Ways We Sabotage Our Goals Without Realizing It
(5:35) - How to Shift From Outcome-Based Goals to Identity-Driven Growth
(13:35) - Feeling Stuck? Here’s the Best Place to Start
 
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Alli’s TV Recommendation - Hacks
 
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xo,
 
Alli

Rewire Your Brain with God’s Truth (It’s Easier Than You Think) with Kyle Idleman

You won't want to miss today's episode, so buckle up! Bestselling author and pastor Kyle Idleman joins me—yes, the same Kyle whose books have impacted millions. We're diving deep into his latest release, Every Thought Captive, a book that explores the power of our thoughts and how to take control of them.
 
If you've ever felt like your mind is on an exhausting marathon—overthinking, doubting, stressing—you're not alone. We all experience those moments. But here's the key: our thoughts shape our peace, purpose, and future. Kyle offers a perspective that brilliantly combines neuroscience with biblical truth, a groundbreaking approach.
 
We discuss the unseen battles in your mind, the sneaky thoughts that hold you back, and, more importantly, the practical ways to regain control. I'm leaving with useful tools that I'll start implementing today.
 
So, grab your coffee, find a cozy spot, and get ready for a conversation that could literally change the way you think.
Timestamps:
(04:53) - Rewiring Your Brain: How to Reclaim and Redirect Your Thoughts
(09:30) - What Constant Media Exposure Is Really Doing to Your Soul
(14:40) - Why Your First Daily Input Shapes Everything That Follows
(17:02) - Practical Ways to Help You Take Every Thought Captive
(20:55) - Feeling Stuck? Here’s What Might Be Holding You Back
(23:29) - The Battle You Didn’t Know You Were Fighting: Our Addiction to Certainty
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Links to great things we discussed: 
 
Song Recommendation - Worthy of It All
TV Show Recommendation - Gold Rush
Book Recommendation - People Fuel
App Recommendation - Clear Space
 
I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright! 
 
xo,
Alli