The Alli Worthington Show

Carlos Whitaker on praying the promise instead of the problem

The king of instastories is back!  My friend, fellow author, the official king of Instagram stories- Carlos Whittaker. We are doing a deep dive into what God has been teaching Carlos while writing his latest (and what he says is his most important book) Enter Wild.  Carlos shares how his family battled through his 18-year old daughter's terrifying diagnosis, how his prayer life has radically changed in recent days, and what it means to live in the "wild" place of God's manifest presence and miracles.    We cover a lot of ground in this one, including: -The recent awakening to racial injustice in our country, and how he's passionately advocating. -What it means to enter rest, war, and wild. -The jaw-dropping miracles and breakthroughs he has seen since he started praying the promises instead of the problems.   Favorite quotes: 1. Right now is the time we have to get wild. Right now is not the time for getting mild and safe and protecting ourselves. Right now is the time we have to shout from the rooftops and live into the fullness God has for us. He has not called us into this mild faith. 2. Rest is not defined in this book as a vacation. Rest is not defined in this book as lowering your blood pressure. Rest in this book is defined as lowering the volume of life so that the volume of God goes up. 3. The promise of the word of God is going to accelerate your healing. 4. The reason why people don’t get specific with God is because we’re scared He won’t answer.    In this episode I answer this question: I recently parted ways with my best friend of 10 years, how do I grieve someone that isn’t dead? (50:19)   Links to great things we discussed: 1. Carlos Whittaker 2. Enter Wild 3. Chris McClarney- Valley 4. Outer Banks 5. The Hate U Give 6. The Silent Patient 7. DGRule - The Invisible Hub for MacBook by DGRule — Kickstarter 8. The Dark Knight Rises Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli  www.alliworthington.com/podcast/carloswhittaker2

Knox McCoy being hilarious and reconsidering all the things.

Anyone else need a good laugh today? I've totally got you, friend. We are joined by the brilliant and hilarious Knox McCoy- co-host of the Popcast and Bible Binge Podcast, and lover of the word "Swashbuckler". We talk about his random train rides to Baton Rouge, his aversion to UT orange, and what he's learning in quarantine (important stuff, like, where to buy a Star Wars mask). We also spend way too much time talking about the correct pronunciations of quinoa, beignets, facade, and Yosemite.   We chat about: -His new book "All Things Reconsidered" and how we can all start asking better questions -The crazy story behind starting the PopCast with Jamie B. Golden -How the show will go on, despite the world being shut down   Favorite quote: I think a lot of us were stuck in our homes and we thought, “So the life I’ve been living for the last few years, did I choose that or did I kind of just get swept up into routines that I don't know if I actually want more?”   In this episode I answer these questions: 1. Do you have a Bible reading plan that you recommend? (47:38) 2. I’m starting a new business, should I name the business my own name or something else? (49:40)   Links to great things we discussed:  1. Knox McCoy 2. All Things Reconsidered 3. Popcast 4. Frank Ocean- Super Rich Kids 5. Run 6. Glass House 7. Bane Face Mask 8. F260 Bible Reading Plan 9. Raiders of the Lost Ark    Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli    www.alliworthington.com/podcast/knoxmccoy

The power of community and coaching with Jenni Catron

Jenni Catron, leadership expert and great friend of mine, joins us to discuss- how to develop confidence and inspire it in others how to prevent leadership from being lonely how to invest in your own emotional health and address anxiety unique challenges that women leaders face the impact of the mental load women are currently carrying why Jenni and Alli love the enneagram how the Women in Leadership Coaching Intensive could be your catapult to the next level in your leadership journey Find out more here- https://get4sight.com/women-in-leadership-coaching-intensive/

Rachel Macy Stafford on parenting with intention and helping kids manage stress

In stressful times- how can we help our kids manage worry, relationships and technology? What does it look like to be the role models they need- even when we are trying to hold it together ourselves?   Today, I'm joined by Rachel Macy Stafford of Hands Free Mama to talk about what stressors the younger generation is battling with most, what it looks like to lead the way in healthy technology use, and how to point your kids to a life of relationship and purpose.    We also chat about: -How our own coping mechanisms can help our children thrive -How to respond to your kids in a way that builds trust -And the questions to ask before we hurl accusations or give corrections   Favorite quote: There’s no right or wrong way to love each other through the tricky turns of life.    In this episode I answer these questions: 1. How do I know if I'm self-sabotaging myself? And if I am, how do I stop it? (36:07) 2. How do I learn to trust God? (41:15)   Links to great things we discussed:  1. Rachel Macy Stafford 2. Live Love Now: Relieve the Pressure and Find Real Connection with Our Kids 3. Noah Kahan- Mess 4. Life is a Verb 5. Where the Crawdads Sing 6. Bethel Revival’s in the air  Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli    www.alliworthington.com/podcast/rachelmacystafford  

How to get unstuck with Jennifer Allwood

Two blonde curly-headed, business coaching, Jesus-loving, Podcasterers are together today!  I’m joined by my new friend Jennifer Allwood. We are diving into the story behind her latest book "Fear's Not The Boss Of You", the lessons she's gained from coaching women, and how we can all stop self-sabotage and get unstuck!    This message is so timely for women wanting to charge ahead (even in the middle of this crisis) and you are going to love her big heart and personality.   We also chat about: -The thing women are most afraid of (it's NOT what you think!) -Her adoption journey  -And what an elderly woman taught her about diving into the deep end   Favorite quotes: 1. Every time we do something that shows us we can do big, hard, scary things without dying, it trains that fear muscle in us to show up and go again next time. 2. Getting unstuck requires figuring out why it’s important to you to not stay there. 3. I’m just trying to work out all the feelings and trying to make sure I’m not eating my weight in raw cookie dough every day.    This week, in coaching time, I’m answering:  “Are we supposed to forgive people even though they are not sorry? And how do we keep from getting hurt again?” (45:00)   Links to great things we discussed: 1. Jennifer Allwood 2. Fear Is Not The Boss Of You 3. Waymaker 4. Dharius Daniels- Relational Intelligence 5. Peanut Butter Falcon 6. Peloton App 7. Elevation Worship- Graves Into Gardens   Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli    www.alliworthington.com/podcast/jenniferallwood

Melanie Dale on how to calm the heck down, parenting, and motherhood

How do we learn to calm the heck down?  I'm with my hilarious, horror-movie loving friend Melanie Dale and we are talking about the book she swore she'd never write. Melanie share why she ended up writing a parenting book after all and that title just may be perfect for every parent during this global pandemic, "Calm The Heck Down"! We have a great time getting honest about topics on marriage, parenting, work, and Melanie tells all on this fun episode.   She also shares: -How she ran accidentally in a 15K (really!)   -How we can drop the expectations and stop majoring in the minors. -The 90s show she's letting her kids currently binge with her.   In this episode I answer these questions: 1. Should I let my son play with toy guns? My husband says yes but I’m not so sure(46:45) 2. Is it wrong for Christians to watch rated R movies? (49:34)    Favorite quote: Whether you work from home, you work out in the world, or you are a stay at home mom and you're working in that capacity, I think the idea of communicating the value of work to our kids is important. 

Lisa Bevere on strong women and living fearlessly in uncertain times

What does it look like to live fearless in an uncertain season? Today, I'm calling in the big guns and my most fierce and fabulous friend Lisa Bevere - to remind us what it means to be STRONG.  Lisa shares what God has been placing on her heart specifically during this global pandemic, what this time can look like for believers if we allow testing to bring out our best, and why she believes we can still have the strength to laugh at the days ahead.   We also do a deep dive into: -What it means to "speak life" to the dead things in our path -Why we are stronger when God strips things away from our life -And why we need to hang on tight for what's next!   Favorite quotes: 1. Strong is not wrong, and so many women get mixed messages from the church about strength. They think that assertive is equal to combative or they think confidence is prideful so they tend to back down their strengths. 2. If we are going to be women who do good rather than just look good, we are going to have to develop a strength that goes to our core, because right now most people are okay looking strong but not doing things that require strength. 3. I believe in a time of testing. God tests us to bring out the best. He brings out the best. He shows us realities.    In this episode I answer these questions: 1. How do I know if I’m self-sabotaging myself and if I am, how do I stop it? (39:22) 2. How do I learn to trust God? (46:25) 3. How should the “about  me” page on my website be written? What's the best strategy for success? (52:54)   Links to great things we discussed:  1. Lisa Bevere 2. Strong: Devotions To Live A Powerful And Passionate Life 3. Cody Carnes Nothing Else 4. Monk 5. Howards End 6. The Chosen 7. Fierce Faith    Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli   

Paula Faris on being called out, taking big risks, and finding your calling.

If God asked you to walk away from your dream job and everything you've ever worked for, could you do it? Today, we are joined by the brave and brilliant Paula Faris as she shares the jaw-dropping story of walking away from her journalism career for ABC News, Good Morning America Weekend and The View. Paula shares insight into how God got her attention, her challenge to stop finding her identitiy in career alone and what it was like to live through what she calls the " year". Paula also shares: - How the American dream was impacting her health, marriage and family. - The 3 keys to identifying out true "vocational calling". - Her year and how she came out of it stronger.   Favorite quotes: 1. When we ignore God and ignore that stirring and that restlessness in our spirit that we know is coming from Him, He will get our attention. 2. I think we can sense when something is off and God will let you know. He will got to great lengths to get your attention. I think he's trying to get a lot of our attention at this moment right now.  He can use any sort of crisis for His glory to redeem the moment.  To redeem your life. To redeem my life. 3. Give yourself the permission if you feel a stirring, permission to branch out, because your gifts and unique talents can translate to so many different capacities.   In this episode the coaching question is: How do you say no to people without feeling guilty? (38:26)   Links to great things we discussed: 1. Paula Farris 2. Called Out 3. Hillsong- Touch of Heaven 4. Pat Barrett- Into Faith I God 5. Homeland 6. The Silent Patient 7. Fierce, Free and Full of Fire 8. Honest Beauty Magic Beauty Balm 9. Two Popes 10. Kari Jobe- Surrounded   Hope you loved this episdoe! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli       www.alliworthington.com/podcast/paulafaris

The power of worship with Melodie Malone

Melodie Malone from Passion Music is with us today. We are sharing how worship can bring us through hard times. Passion is a movement founded by Louie and Shelley Giglio in 1995, Passion has been rooted in the truth of Isaiah 26:8 – “Yes Lord, walking in the way of Your truth we wait eagerly for You, for Your name and Your renown are the desire of our hearts” - existing to glorify God by uniting students in worship, prayer, and justice for spiritual awakening in this generation. Passion has ushered in the writing, recording, and leading of some of the most recognizable and unforgettable worship anthems of this generation and is currently helmed by Kristian Stanfill, Brett Younker, and Melodie Malone. Chris Tomlin, Matt Redman, Crowder, Christy Nockels and more have also lent their voices alongside Passion throughout the years.   With more than two million units sold and a multitude of chart-topping singles such as “Glorious Day,” “Build My Life,” “God, You’re So Good,” “How Great Is Our God,” “God Of This City,” “One Thing Remains,” “Even So Come,” and “10,000 Reasons (Bless the Lord),” listeners across the world continue to be impacted by the music of Passion. They have more than two billion album streams total, and their most recent release, Follow You Anywhere, has more than 47 million global streams alone. 

Sheila Walsh on the power of prayer

What do we pray when we don't want to pray? What do we say to God when we are angry or hope feels lost? Today, I'm joined by my friend and the best storyteller on the planet, Shelia Walsh. Shelia shares about the personal journey that led her to write her latest book "Praying Women" and why it's been especially important during this global pandemic.  Shelia shares powerful testimony and insight into how she knows God is near to the brokenhearted and why we shouldn't shy away from prayer even when our words fall short or our hearts lack strength.    We also talk about: 1. Where to start if you aren't sure how or what to pray. 2. If God is sovereign and already knows our fate, why pray? 3. How to pray boldly and proactively for our families.   Favorite quotes: 1. The level that we’re willing to be honest with God is an indication of how much we actually trust who He is. 2. No prayer is wasted. A lifetime is not too long to pray. 3. Prayer was so important to Jesus. If you think about the number of times that He woke up really early in the morning or late at night when the disciples are exhausted and He sends them off in a boat but He goes up to the mountains to pray. If prayer was so important to Jesus why would we think it should be any less important to us.   In this episode, I answer this question- “I want to start a business but I don’t know if I  have a great idea for it yet. How do I know if my business will work? I know it’s time to take the leap and I want to make sure I won’t fail. How do I know for sure?”    Links to great things we discussed:  1. Praying Women 2. Free 8 week bible study / Code word: HOP 3. Kelly Clarkson: I Dare You 4. The Great British Baking Show 5. Frederick Buechner Telling The Truth: The Gospel as Comedy, Tragedy, and Fairy Tale  6. COLOR WOW Dream Coat 7. Passion to Profit / Discount Code: PODCAST 8. Bad Boys For Life 9. Amanda Lindsey Cook: Help Is On The Way    Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli    www.alliworthington.com/podcast/sheilawalsh2